Saturday, March 12, 2011

Approach Anxiety

Approach, approach, approach!

When was the last time you saw a beautiful woman but didn't have the courage to talk to her? Or made an excuse why you shouldn't?

some guys say it's their biggest challenge

.. and are shocked when it's no longer a problem after a couple hours. It's actually one of the easiest things they learn during the weekend. I'm going to share some of those secrets here.

Dealing with approach anxiety isn't just for newbies - it's also for more experienced guys who might not be pushing their skills as far as they could.



APPROACH ANXIETY IS *NOT* THE PROBLEM

Approach anxiety is normal. It's the feeling our bodies give us when we take risks. It comes from the same part of the brain (the "amygdala") that activates when you go bungee-jumping or get on a big roller coaster.

Okay, I know... approach anxiety sure doesn't FEEL very good when a beautiful woman is walking by. You get nervous and your brain finds a million reasons not to do whatever it thinks is "risky."

But, it doesn't have to be like this.

Remember when you were young, before society taught you to follow the pack, keep your head down, and play by all the rules. If you're like most men, you probably LOOKED for risks: a higher tree to climb, a higher diving board to jump off of, crazy adventures with your buddies, etc...

You CAN get that feeling back, and make approaching FUN. Sign up now to get tips and newsletters about approaching women



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